Memories of California -It Wasn't All Bad

I'm looking back on our California experience. We have recovered, are moving forward again, and realize what a necessary part it was of our life.

Typical Ranch View

Ranch Bedroom

Ranch yard

View from my ranch bedroom

What an amazing journey. It was a beautiful place.

Sycamore Canyon Rd -- I traveled this road every day to get to the highway to get to work

Ranch Resident

The Ranch where I lived

Entrance to Ranch

My favorite part of the Ranch driveway

Jack and I on a hike

Hiking high above Walnut Creek

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40 Days and Nights in The Bay Area

OK -- We tried! We changed our life for a job in Walnut Creek California. We packed our car drove the 13 hours on Halloween Day which was also my birthday. She started work on November 2. Six weeks later we have packed our bags and returned to Sedona. The job wasn't bad -- but working hard 50+ hours per week and not clearing $900/week didn't cut it. The taxes in California are killers! 9%+ on just about everything.

The room we rented was on a 22 acre horse ranch which was spectacular -- but on the second week our room was ransacked by our four-legged roommate. We started looking for another place to live. Meanwhile in the six weeks we were there she suffered a terrible head cold, tonsillitis, 1/2 dozen migraine headaches, daily intestinal distress -- and that was just the beginning. We even did a home visit to a client in Oakland and our car was vandalized while we were in the lady's house. That was about the last straw.

By the time we got home to Sedona, she had lost nine pounds and I had lost 11! It was an example of living in a place that didn't support us. We were running into the wind, swimming upstream in everything we did. Nothing was easy. The mountain ranges were gorgeous and the weather was beautiful, but life in California can be tough. Eight lane highways, overpassing eight lane highways and a rush hour that lasted most of the day and through the weekend too. The company she worked for was excellent, however there were many disappointments.  She was told some things up front that did not come to be true. So it was not just one thing that pushed us out of California, but the overall life situation.

Her landscape photos are posted on Facebook. I mostly wanted to post the photos of the place we were living. She "feng shui-ed" it and that was the best part of our stay : )

Scroll down further to see photos of me and our ransacked room!

Our Bedroom - BEFORE

Our Bedroom - AFTER

"Design on a Dime"
(COST: Futon/Craigslist $200 Lamp/Shade/GoodWill $3.99 Bedside Tables/GoodWill $8.98 Velvet Drapes/Marshalls $12.00 Sheers/Hospice Thrift Shop $6.00 Leaf Canvas/GoodWill $3.99)

Livingroom - BEFORE

Livingroom - AFTER

Cost $0

BEFORE

(that was me and him "before" our episode)

AFTER

(Cost $0)


Diningroom - BEFORE

Diningroom - AFTER

(Cost: $9 for silk ficus tree at GoodWill)

DEFINITE FENG SHUI DON'TS:

Really BAD Feng Shui --Here's our First Impression of a Most Non-Nourishing Kitchen

It is not just bad Feng Shui -- it is toxic! It was a toxic environment in most ways.

Our roommate was adorable, delightful, bright and witty.

And she lived in a cluttered mess!

We didn't feng shui her private space. We didn't go in there. We left 'well enough" alone.

How did she sleep in this BED this way? But she did somehow!

CANINE RELATIONSHIP BUILDING:

Getting to know you....

She was never sure if we were playing or fighting. It was a fine line as he and I were learning to live together. He wanted to dominate and you can't blame him. He lived there before I moved in. I never wanted to make a problem and I tried to stay sweet and friendly. I couldn't help it, though, when we played I would always "win,  pinning him to the floor on his back beneath my smiling playful face.

It just made him mad over time, I guess.

But one day both Kate and the lady went to work and us two dogs were left alone together. 

When she arrived home later that night, this is what she found:

A RANSACKED ROOM!

The bed had been made and the room was spotless when she left that morning. And this is silly, but she actually made the bed before she took this picture (second nature!)
"Somebody" had drawn back all the sheets down to the mattress and had eaten cardboard in our bed! Little grey pieces of cardboard -- I still don't know what that was.

"I didn't do it!"Our stuff was strewn all through the house -- this was the livingroom. 

Can you believe he ate the HANGER! And our flashlight too!

I still have the big scab to prove it. We knew we had to leave and while we earnestly sought a new place to live in California, it was not long before we knew we had to leave this place altogether.

"What on Earth are we doing here?"

This is how I ask permission to come up on the bed with you. Now I ask

"Can we just go HOME? Please?"

"Oh God help me."

More California Memories

This was the last turn on the road home from work.

Windy roads for about three miles. 

Sometimes we would stop at the Reservoir and walk up up up to the top.

It was worth it for the great views!

Cattle look like ants when you are high enough over them.

Death Valley California

Entering Death Valley

Panamint Springs Resort

View from Panamint Springs

The Unit -- Old but Clean and Very OK!

8/25/09 We just checked into the motel "resort" at Death Valley!! It is SOOOOOO strange here! And very worth a visit!!! I am tired of eating crackers and cheese and peanut butter. I am hoping she will treat us to a $15 burger at the Panamint Springs motel.
It was 39 degrees last night at June Lake and today it is only" 106 degrees in Death Valley
(they say it's normally 120!).

Death Valley --- it is like another planet --- it is so interesting but so undernourished!!!! I can't help but wonder if the ocean was once right here and the sand was the bottom and the weird cliffs were just the landforms under the water. Some of them even look like reefs. Then we passed by signage that reads "Sea Level"; parts of the Valley are 200 feet BELOW sea level. It is a strange and fascinating place!

It feels God-forsaken although there are truly loads of life forms living in the dry gray and brown nooks and crannies! Life is amazing and this place has a beauty all its own.

See Photos Below:

Within moments of getting through Death Valley, we merged onto the highway to Las Vegas and -- I wish we had a photo of this one --- : Elvis Presley was driving an old cadillac! We assumed he had a "gig" in Vegas. It was a strange and surreal welcome back into civilization! : )